Hey guys,
Sorry I haven’t written in a while, I’ve been busy with school and family stuff. Anyway something has happened recently that’s gotten me pretty upset. A while back when my older brother was a lot younger and confused he did something to my best friend on a camping trip that she came with us on. What he did was inexcusable and caused a gigantic void in our friendship, even though I never found out it happened until two years after the fact. She never came over to my house after that, I always just went to hers and our parents fought over so many different things that both of our families became divided with each other while we kept trying to hold on to our friendship as best we could. I don’t know if this was because she still wanted to be my friend or out of obligation since I didn’t actually do anything wrong. I did find out from another friend later that she was thinking about no longer being friends with me right after it happened. In that situation I don’t know if that was her or her family speaking on the subject. The reason I bring this event up is because that happened almost 8-10 years ago and we’ve been BEST friends for nearly 13 years now. However, a few weeks ago she messages me over facebook and sends me this big long paragraph about how she went and talked to a spiritual guide (priest) which I think is a really good thing and found out that she hadn’t really dealt with the situation that happened with my brother. This brought her to the conclusion that we should “take a break” from our friendship until she’s been able to deal with this. Again, I fully support that decision and I really do hope that she finds the closer or whatever it is that she needs. Like every situation though, I have my opinions. As I’ve said in a previous post she is like my un-biological sister and I miss her and the whole situation sucks more because I understand why she has to do this and would do the same thing in her position. I just hope that she will come back someday……soon. Although, I do hope that when she does it will be because she misses me too, but I have this aching feeling that she’s happier without me. She has a boyfriend who loves her and cares so much about her and is so strong in his faith and it’s so wonderful and she’s doing a bunch of great new things with her work and getting closer to her sisters……well…her REAL sisters….anyway I guess I should go on to my life of doing nothing but homework and missing everyone.
People Always Leave.
Thanks for listening…
Sara
Sisters are sisters forever, so if you guys are truly friends, she’ll come back. Not all good things in life are lost forever. Keep up the hope!
Hey, Thanks for the feedback, I was beginning to think I was talking to myself. I do hope your right about my friend, I just wish I could believe it enough to stop worrying about it. Well anyway thank you it helps to know there’s someone out there listening.
Sara